Tuesday, September 29, 2015
A lot has happened in the last several weeks. The dream is not dead but it is severely injured.
It is a long story but here are the highlights.
Several technical and financial setbacks have made following through with my plans at this time difficult at best. But even more importantly is my realization that I love Eileen very much and I'd rather be here with her than anyplace else without her. Even if that means another Midwestern winter.
When the time is right for both of us, she and I will start the travel dream together. For now, being together is what matters most.
So come October I'll be moving to Fort Wayne to begin the next chapter. Not the path I planned but a brand new path full of new challenges and opportunities.
Who knows, I might even find a fun new job in the interim.
It is time for a change and at this point in time I believe this is the right choice.
Bring it on life.....I refuse to go down.
Saturday, August 1, 2015
Tuesday, July 28, 2015
Fort Wayne to Yuma Arizona.
About 15 days
Stop for beer in St Louis
Visit Aliens in Roswell
Take a wrong turn in Albuquerque
See the OK Corral in Tucson
Explore Yuma, Castle Dome, the Colorado River, etc, etc.
Friday, July 24, 2015
Sunday, July 19, 2015
Paired with the 42 gallon Blue Boy I now can bring in fresh water and haul away used water without having to move the rig. Saving inconvenience, time, and money.
There is always a way if you are just willing to dig deep and find it.
Happiness is the goal. I don't believe I've ever met anyone who truly wants to be unhappy. Some seem to live life seeking unhappiness, but I don't think it is what they really want. Maybe the fear of failing to find happiness is enough to keep some folks from really trying, or maybe it's something else I can't begin to understand.
I believe most of us know we want it, but are not sure how to get it. We follow the road that society has laid out for us. We simply do what we believe we are supposed to do. Maybe some find happiness doing that, I did not.
I'm not saying I was miserable or there was not any joy in my life. It was just not completely fulfilling. I always felt like something was missing. Something I couldn't quite put my finger on. So I kept on doing what others said I should, following the herd, always hoping I'd eventually run across that whatever it was, that's missing.
Then I found the key. That magical skeleton key that as John Denver put it, "opens every door."
What is the key?
Self awareness. The realization that happiness is individual and we have to determine for ourselves what it is that will make us happy. We have to throw away the rules and limitations society imposes on us and reach deep inside ourselves and ask, what do I need to be happy? What do I really want to do with the rest of my life? What would it take for me to live this new lifestyle.
Wanna be happy? Here's the secret.....be true to yourself. Chase your dream. Discover what you really want from life. You might just find yourself happier than a tornado in a trailer park.
Thursday, July 9, 2015
Tuesday, June 16, 2015
Saturday, June 13, 2015
Wednesday, June 10, 2015
Tuesday, June 9, 2015
Wednesday, June 3, 2015
Someone asked me "how can you afford quit your job and go be a gypsy? "
I said "it's easy, I won the lottery, yep $200 million". They said "you did not".
And they were right, I did not. But what if I had? No one would think twice about me quitting if I had won the Lottery. Money, is all the lottery changes. What do you suppose I'd do if I had won? I'm thinking I'd do things I enjoy, have more fun, travel. I'd like to believe I'd donate a lot of money to good causes like curing diabetes. Something dear to my heart.
Life does cost money and I don't know of any way around that - but what I do know is it CAN cost a lot less money than most of us think. Also I believe that making money does not have to be work but can be fun.
So how can I afford to quit my job and be a gypsy? I can't - living my former lifestyle. I've drastically changed my lifestyle and I will still be occasionally employed. But my hope is.......to never have to "work" again. I know I'm already appreciating things I used to completely overlook. There's incredible beauty all around us if we can just step back from the rush of making a living in order to fill our big house full of stuff......to see it.
Monday, June 1, 2015
- Beautiful scenery. I'm staying right on a private lake. I could not afford to buy a house in such a beautiful spot.
- Less. Less stuff to take care of, less space to clean, no lawn to mow. I vacuum my whole house with a Dustbuster in less than 10 minutes. (Less is also a Con.)
- Freedom. I feel much free-er. Nothing holding me back. I can move on a whim, or not. I have choice to be where I want.
- Lower expenses. No property taxes, no mortgage. Much lower utility bills.
- Carpe-dufaw. This doesn't mean anything......I can still just be silly.
- All the comforts of home. I still have a couch, tv, fridge. My own bathroom & shower. Coming home from work is much the same as it was before as far as “comfort” goes.
- Less. Moving from 1300 sq feet to under 300 is hard. Even for me who has very little attachment to stuff. I'd estimate that right now I own less than 10% the amount of stuff I did one year ago. It's still too much. You just have to drastically limit yourself on stuff. I am keeping a lot of tools because they can earn income in my travels and my fishing gear because, well heck, a guy has to have priorities.
- Temperature. The rv is much more affected by outside temperature than a house is. Makes sense, with much thinner roofs and walls. So when it's cold outside, it's cold inside and vise-versa. It's workable, but a noticeable difference.
- Build quality. RV's at least anything remotely affordable to me are made pretty cheaply. This low quality can create issues that shouldn't exist but do. Again, nothing you can't tolerate in most cases but it's a shame they are not built better.
1. Be prepared.
People ask me all the time, "aren't you scared?" "Aren't you worried about what might happen?"
My answer is always, "Nope". Fear does not exist and worry is a waste of energy. Danger exist and we must be aware of that but fear is not real.
Worrying is a choice and eight or nine times out of ten what we worry about never happens.
Rule one in scouting taught me how to alleviate fear and worry by being prepared.
My rule #1.
Every time a worry come into my head I ask myself this question, "ok, how can I prepare for that?" Then I do that. Sometimes it takes a long time to prepare but if I can't do it immediately, it goes on the to do list.
My rule #2.
Think of the worst case scenario and have a backup plan for that. As long as you have prepared an exit strategy you always have an out. Maybe not a great choice, but a way out.
People often tell me that I'm lucky because "at least you (me) can see the light at the end of the tunnel". I don't think of myself in a tunnel. I see myself on the path of life. I've been just trudging along on the well worn path heading for the typical eventual goal. There have been y's in my path. Occasionally I took one but most times not, I just "stayed the course". This time there is no "y". I'm simply stepping off the defined path and starting a whole new path, into the unknown. Others have done it and survived, some even thrived. It's not scary to me it's exhilarating. I'm sure there will be new paths. Some heavily used, some lightly traveled. I most likely will travel some of those at times, but for the most part, be blazing my own new trail.
I am beginning a new phase in life. I'm very proud of some of the things I'm accomplished thus far, others not so much but those experiences brought me here. Where I go from here is the choice I'm faced with now.
I'm not "brave" or "courageous" or "crazy". I've just decided to spend this stage of my life trying new things, experiencing new adventures, and most of all having fun. Instead of the drudgery that comes from doing what I thought, I was "supposed to do".
Maybe I'm "supposed to do".......this. Time will tell.
Saturday, May 30, 2015
Friday, May 29, 2015
Friday, May 8, 2015
Sunday, April 19, 2015
Wednesday, April 15, 2015
Tuesday, April 14, 2015
Saturday, April 4, 2015
Friday, April 3, 2015
Another item checked off the list. List is getting shorter & shorter.
Wednesday, April 1, 2015
I was very happy to see my new heater had arrived from Amazon already today. I set right to work finding the ideal location to keep it when not in use. I think you will be impressed with my ingenuity.
|This is the side of the TV cabinet. The factory furnace is inside here so the bottom area is mostly used for that. One shelf I'll have to shorted but that's all.|
|Cutting out the new hole.|
|Measuring the space requirements.|
|In it's new home. Now you see it.......|
|Now you don't.......you see the Bass Island Lighthouse. The heater is safely tucked away in it's own out of the way spot. I bought a 12 ft flexible hose so I can pull the heater out and set it about anywhere in the camper.|
|This was pretty much just wasted space. I lost only about 6 inches of shelf space inside the cabinet.|
Sunday, March 29, 2015
This Empire brand comes highly recommended by Handy Bob's Solar, someone I believe knows what he's talking about. He's been using one similar to this for 10 years now.
Friday, March 27, 2015
Tuesday, March 24, 2015
|New LP Gas detector. Installed at the low point of interior.|
|New Carbon Monoxide Detector.|
|New 12 volt outlet for bedroom TV.|
|New courtesy light in the bedroom.|
|Modified courtesy light with 12 volt outlet for 12 volt electric blanket.|
|Supplies for the road. You always need a screw, bolt or fuse.|